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1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-10 13:30 ID:tJl8GN2a

Theres this girl i'm pretty interested in at the moment, she seems to be quite interested in me cos i make my own music and i asked her to sing for the songs i do. so far everytime i ask her out she always come even if its lunch with only me and her, she said she really respect people who makes music and she was flirting with me but not that often. i've had over 10 rejections in the past which i kind of lost confidence to my self but the music seems to get her really interested, what should i do?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-10 13:34 ID:Rr9+F6mq

ask her?
Or you can always wait until you're better friends first

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-10 13:43 ID:tJl8GN2a

>>2 well we're quite good friends at the moment, but i dont think its the right time now cos i only just got close to her like early this year.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-10 16:22 ID:lUe0MjPq


If she flirted with you (make sure you do know the difference between flirting and complimenting) then she's hinting at something. Otherwise, she would keep it plain professional.

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-10 16:24 ID:lUe0MjPq


And yeah, 10 rejections may mean that the girls you were asking out didn't find you attractive (physically or emotionally). That also means that you were asking the wrong ones out! So, try to question your taste and find out the type of girls that you will like and that she will like you. Maybe this girl is your type and you're her type, who knows?!

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6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-10 17:40 ID:EAhe69TU

Think of it this way, the more girls you're rejected by, the more likely the next girl WON'T reject you.

She's definitely sending positive signals towards you. You want to get a romantic relationship started sooner rather than later, before she decides you're not worth pursuing.

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-11 00:05 ID:K8wukkJw

Hehe don't worry about the girls who look 'hot' There not the ones you want. Most of them are mean and controlling. Look for the one who is 'average' there just perfect.