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Boyfriend wants to spend the night with his ex (8)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-10 23:39 ID:lg06VGlv

I'm having relationship troubles. My boyfriend wants to spend time with another guy he fooled around with before. They have been friends for 10 years or something but haven't been hanging out recently. He said he wanted to spend the night. This is pretty unacceptable. How can I explain this without making it seem like I don't trust him?

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-10 23:58 ID:Se4tehcC

Just for clarification, are you a guy or girl? Because I dunno if you can consider it cheating if it crosses gender boundaries.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-11 00:08 ID:u9luw7Bw

No. Worry about it. 'If you trust me' is almost as bad as saying

'if you love me' while rapping someone.

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4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-11 00:15 ID:lg06VGlv

I'm a guy by the way.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-11 00:48 ID:Se4tehcC

then you should worry about it.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-11 01:41 ID:MUKda2Fc

yeah i thought you were female and for a sec it looked very werid

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-11 08:59 ID:t9iWTHdE

I'd worry about it, ask him to bring you along, that is "if he loves you".

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-11 11:47 ID:dfNlK4gU

He can't be trusted. It isn't going to be just a platonic spending the night, it's going to be you getting cheated on. Ask him to not spend the night, 'if he loves you'.