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Muslim Dating issues (32)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-16 00:56 ID:nkeHBUB6

I know this very pretty, funny, romantic muslim woman from Egypt. She says that because of her customs and her belief. It is a little complicated so I will break it down for you.

  1. She says that she won't date because she just wants marriage. I'm only 19 and I don't want to marry her, but I do want to date her. She believes that her philosophy is crazy, but continues to follow it.
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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-16 00:59 ID:nkeHBUB6

Bump because this is important and relevant to my interests.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-16 01:08 ID:nkeHBUB6

what to do... what to do...

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-16 01:17 ID:Heaven

lol dude have you ever thought of the fact that she is saying those things because she does NOT want to date you?

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-16 01:22 ID:GO3XuSmD

YOU CANT. Plus if she has a big brother and he finds out, you will get the shit kicked out of you. If not, there are always nephews,cousins and when they see you together=owned. She knows that PLUS she seems she is a REAL moslima and the white man bullsh#t is not true, there are ALOT of woman who marry white men,but yeah they have to be converted to islam otherwise no deal.

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6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-16 02:53 ID:ibTj0/Qy

ignore muslim women, not worth it

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-16 03:19 ID:0ndvfbpp

Not worth the time/effort. Find someone else.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-16 08:50 ID:UnAS7UHE

Ask her to date, but tell her you won't ask for relations. Just to hang out, go places and do things.

If you can handle that.

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9 Name: Cookie Monster : 2008-04-16 09:13 ID:qH+R4YmQ


i can bet that she's saying those things to let you down easy.
(unless she's fresh off the plane from Egypt)

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10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-16 09:14 ID:54dymcko

This is a pretty fucked up situation for you. Given either truth or falsity on her behalf, you're going to find it impossible to fuck a girl like that. Give up, for the good of all white, atheist, and lusty men.

11 Name: Julio : 2008-04-16 16:10 ID:KDaWYSlc

If she´s a true muslin, she is forbidden to date with no-muslin boys. Muslin males can date with no-muslin females, but muslin females cant date no-muslin males.

12 Name: Julio : 2008-04-16 16:13 ID:KDaWYSlc

Plus... dates are arranged by parents... you don´t choose who you date. Dates = marriage in a short time.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-16 17:43 ID:dggn+zZh

Try to get her turned onto a real Middle Eastern religion, like Zoroastrianism or Coptic Christianity.

I can sympathize thoguh. I was a victim anti-White racism by my Mexican girlfriend's family. I thought I could save her from a life of being married to a consruction worker, slavish devotion to the Romanist church, and dragging eight kids around Walmart, but she eventually followed the wishes of her parents and dropped me.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-16 18:30 ID:OCvnEs69

>Try to get her turned onto a real Middle Eastern religion, like Zoroastrianism

Isn't conversion not officially allowed in Zoroastrianism?

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15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-16 19:34 ID:UnAS7UHE

>If she´s a true muslin, she is forbidden to date with no-muslin boys. Muslin males can date with no-muslin females, but muslin females cant date no-muslin males.

Maybe in the older times, due to how you interpret the pre-marital sex rule. Generally, pre-marital sex isn't allowed, and anything that could possible cause it.

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16 Name: Julio : 2008-04-16 20:52 ID:KDaWYSlc


It´s a rule from Al Coran. I ask about this to some muslins and they told me that. We are "impures", hehe.

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17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-17 00:39 ID:dggn+zZh


Islam is a savage religion that refuses to co-exist with other faiths. It turned the Middle East from a paradise to a wasteland(Persia to Iran, Constantinople to Turkey) et cetera).

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-17 03:15 ID:GO3XuSmD

>>17 All religions are manmade lies, Cut of religion and there will still be the Demonhead called "God" which creates new mindstupid religions. No troll here, just saying. Bye

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-17 04:14 ID:dggn+zZh

>>Bawwww, my parents made me go to church. I'm an Atheist because I'm so edgy and cool.

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-17 05:58 ID:M7nP3hJB

Here is advice from a Muslim who is dating a Muslim. In my case, my girlfriend will not date unless there is serious long term potential aka can she see herself marrying me? And this is a common view held among other Muslim girls that they won't date unless they can see themselves married to the guy. Also in Islam, Muslim girls cannot marry a Christian or a Jew under the assumption that the children will follow the belief of the father. So she may not be dating you because she can't see her self getting hitched to you.

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21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-17 06:19 ID:dggn+zZh

Did you know that in London, a cleric is a paying young Muslim men to covert Sheik and Hindi girls?

22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-17 21:05 ID:XHUFUtf3

I like how people are bashing all sorts of faiths but then end it by saying "Im not a troll!" Classic.

Her beliefs are obviously important to her. You must respect that and move on.

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23 Name: gothicgirl : 2008-04-24 22:18 ID:6jVNlcqI

My family is Muslim (I am not 'cause I don't really believe in religion although I believe in god) and trust me if she is a religious muslim she has a lot more reasons.

  1. Muslims are not allowd to date. You get married to whoever your parents pick (arranged marrige).
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24 Name: 20 : 2008-04-24 23:28 ID:+tNcb/Db

Damn, I never heard of those rules.

  1. Yes Muslims are not allowed to date, but you don't have to choose who your parents pick. You ever hear of ISNA?
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25 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-25 14:28 ID:FYBgZoj2

These Muslim laws are so puritanical it's frightening. It's all about control over women because they don't trust them to stay virgins until marriage.

However, the western dating system can get pretty cumbersome and painful if you can't keep up or play it right. Not to mention letting everyone sleep with whomever they want causes rampant drama and STDs.

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26 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-25 17:45 ID:kilACiq2

OP, I'm a Muslim girl. A a few years Christian man fell in love with me, and vice versa, and guess what? When it came to marriage, he said a) not willing to convert and b) not willing to talk about marriage. To keep a long story short, we're not together anymore.

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27 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-25 19:52 ID:YGsu0QmT

Check it out OP, maybe you'll find her there.

28 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-26 21:04 ID:Heaven

Egyptians are niggers in denial.

29 Name: gothicgirl : 2008-04-27 01:39 ID:6jVNlcqI

Well those r old rules 4 really religious Muslims. Maybe ur family isn't as religious as mine. Muslims r supposed to follow them, but now most don't.

30 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-27 01:59 ID:Heaven

Well those r new rules 4 really religious Muslims. Maybe ur family is as religious as mine. Muslims r supposedlakjtioWJER

31 Name: 20 : 2008-04-27 21:26 ID:3Un24Fn4


My family is pretty strict and if I didn't see any long term potential with my girlfriend then I would have gone for her. Kind of sad, but I have been conditioned to think that I have to find a girl to marry. However, even I wasn't dating her and I was good friends it is still possible that we will marry (I consider her my best friend too). In my family, we have no problem with friends of the opposite gender, as long as they don't get too close. In the eyes of my parents the fact that we are already friends means we already have a relationship ready and marriage between us will not be as difficult. So as far is my Mom is concerned I have a really good Egyptian friend (though I am quite sure my Mom can read between the lines).

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32 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-07 17:43 ID:+PH0/Yks

She does not like you. Just find another girl.