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How do I start? (6)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-16 18:33 ID:0gTBjRoY

There is this girl whom is interested in me. She's the hottest and cutest fucking thing you'll ever lay eyes on. But the thing is I'm quite an introvert. I have trouble maintaining a constant conversation with people, especially if they talk about mundane subjects - not that she does (though I don't know her too well yet). Anyways, how can I start getting to know her more? I've always been anti-social, and I haven't dated any girls since high school when it was different. What do I talk about? How do I talk to her? How to I advanced to get to know her more? Halp.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-16 19:34 ID:hGmloqnl

You could try by being friends with some of her friends. Sometimes connections can help.

But then again, I've never been outside of high school relationships, so I don't know how things go out there.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-16 20:26 ID:M21bLDTF

if you dont know her well, how do you know she is interested in you (since you describe yourself as anti-social, im assuming no one has told you about it)

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-16 20:48 ID:0gTBjRoY

I don't know her well, but I talk to her all the time. I'm not oblivious.

5 Name: Julio : 2008-04-16 21:10 ID:zCZmdGzs

Don´t think so much, man. It´s the fear which creat problems and put bad ideas in your mind

If she is interested in you, talk to her like you talk with your friends. And be yourself! Don´t try to be another person... don´t try to be more funny or smart than you really are. There is no mistery. .

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-04-17 07:56 ID:kFy94LHt

Just ask her questions about her. Girls like to talk about themselves and will instantly give points to anyone who will listen.