what to do? what to do?
i had been seeing this WL (working lady) for a few times now. i really enjoyed my time seeing her (not just the sex). she's really friendly and energetic, always saying how she likes me blablabla... yeah, i know she probably said the same thing to the other hundred guys but still, it made me feel good.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO PUT ON THAT RED DRESS TONIGHT!
It's normal to develop feelings for a person you're sleeping with. Biological even.
To find her, check local colleges that teach english.
Try and contact her but hold on to your cock so you dont have sex with her.
dammit...this sounds like a Densha Otoko ~ Another story complex
You're going to get beaten up by two Yakuza dudes and they'll steal your ring :(
yap definitely have to contact her, better to put me out of my misery sooner if she says no, no loss in trying right??
i'll just ask if she wants to meet up and have dinner. i'll post what happens next (assuming she answer).
welcome to the 4-ch clan!!!
call her, ask her to go to dinner or just coffee, anything.
arghh no luck so far, she did not answer. well i left a message anyway (still hoping she would reply somehow). the number its right because she replied to me once when i asked when she was working next (this was when she was still working)
that is, to a minimum, a friendly gesture. She is just telling you "I want to know you better." But it's not a sign saying "I love you." If that was the case...she would be constantly leaving you text messages and voice mails. Then again...I find that creepy.
oh no, i understand its not a sign saying "i love you", but i just thought that she might want to be friend or something. that's why i was thinking why she didn't answer if that's the case.
and i thought about it before, if she was just being friendly, there was no need to give her number right? although the circumstance we met was not normal anyway.
It's possible she was just busy, and will call you back. I mean, I think it's weird that she would give you her personal number if your relationship was "professional," so to speak.
and yeah, she may just want to be friends, but it may be something more...But you're right, yours is a really unusual a really unusual circumstance, so there's no telling how it will go.
@Thunder-chan...I don't think this is somewhat related to the movie. If anything...OP over here would continue to go at her and call her up...over and over again.
Anyways...just keep calling. No...better yet, talk to her up front. Seriously...just ask her "can we hang out" and hope for a response. The phone number is one thing, but actually do something that doesn't involve using a device to communicate.
hey she just replied!!! as i said earlier, she didn't answer my call, so i sent an sms instead, just asking how she's doing and if she's studying full time now.
well her reply is short, "how are you? i work today, long time no see~"
fool...don't be hasty. just talk to her...and be a least friendly with her. don't bring up "can I go out with you" until later in the conversation (and try making it "a long conversation"...it will lighten the mood).
oh yes i was only gonna ask her out near the end, not at the beginning of the session. hope she'll agree to it. wish me luck!
ok when i arrived at the parlor, i was told to wait for 15 mins so i started chatting with the pimp.
when i booked the girl, he asked me "oh she sms you right?" a bit surprised but i replied yes.
come to think about it, the good thing about seeing a WL is because there is no string attached, if i see her outside work, it kind of defeats the purpose right? might as well see regular girl, not that i have the problem of girls not wanting to go out with me, just no one suitable at the moment
for you, I feel the same: I don't want to believe this "pimp;" I still have feelings for her. However, that cannot be determined until you actually interact with her. Now, at this point...YOU NEED to pull her out of this work and actually interact with her in the real world. Just talking to her at the parlor means one thing: you were treated like a customer...nothing more, nothing less. Unless this is a Densha Otoko ~another story~ miracle...try not to keep your hopes up.