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Posting for a friend... (7)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-15 22:17 ID:BcIeGyX+

Alright, this is probably somewhat different than most posts. I consider myself to be a pariah, and as such I have no interest in romantic issues and avoid them like the plague.

A dear friend of mine, however, is not so lucky.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-16 01:42 ID:yZ3gpDV8

Tell the friend to dump her, notify school counselor/her parents etc that maybe that she's unstable and might need support.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-17 01:16 ID:p5oMCEsK

I agree with >>2.
If he doesn't really like her then staying with her will only make them both unhappy. Tell her to dump her gently, but dump her-- if he's unhappy, she'll be unhappy as well, so breaking up will be better for the both of them.
Do tell him to notify someone in charge, though; I'd say the counselor is best, because the parents might not want to have much to do with the boy who is rejecting their daughter, you know?

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-18 19:47 ID:Heaven

> My question is: how can I help him?

You can't. You don't.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-20 14:04 ID:Heaven

> My question is: how can I help him?

Make her your girlfriend.

6 Name: Akina : 2008-05-21 05:05 ID:GMQ9QlbY

Because shes so emotional, and he's been with her for months now, she sees him as a beacon of light amongst the darkness. (That sounded emo I know) So she is clinging on to him as much as possible because in her eyes, she is the only one she can trust.

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-21 07:15 ID:AitLvQld

either way he'll be rid of her in the end. girls in high school talk about marriage all the time. HS girls are stupid that way. breaking up with her is fine- if she really is that unstable- she shouldn't be dating anyways and should be seeking help. do not delay the inevitable