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Single By Choice vs. Forced Single (10)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-21 07:16 ID:7mvEGrwB

k so in my head their is a HUGE difference.

Like i have this friend and she is super pretty and has guys falling all over her but she is still single, so she is a wanted single... but she still complains about being single super annoying

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-21 07:45 ID:pnrlJBw0

Well... Yes and no. Yes, anyone can get into a relationship easily, they are just scared, or timid, or whatever. Or no, they rather be single because it is less of a hassle. It's a little confusing.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-21 10:02 ID:wz8SC5iQ

maybe your friend likes someone in particular, thus complains about being single but wont date just anybody.

and nuh i don't think everyone is single by choice,

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-21 12:05 ID:Heaven

If you're desperate enough, you could use an online dating service, a mail-order bride, or just some sell-out on CraigsList. Ultimately, it all boils down to that choice.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-21 12:30 ID:kOErr1E3

>Like i have this friend and she is super pretty and has guys falling all over her but she is still single, so she is a wanted single... but she still complains about being single super annoying

Just because somebody likes her doesn't mean she likes them. You don't get into a relationship just because the other person likes you, you like them too. She might not want to be single, but isn't just going to get with the first guy she sees.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-21 16:52 ID:Heaven

>>4
This pretty much covers it. Everybody has standards as to who they will/won't date, those standards are a choice and thus we make a conscious decision not to date certain people.
Put yourself in her shoes, would you want a bunch of desperate girls [possibly with kids and/or diseases] after you who probably just want you for money and status?

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 04:36 ID:7mvEGrwB

Yeah that makes sense, i guess it just annoys me more then anything.. even though i know it shouldn't

should a person change who they are to get a guy?? i mean i know i would never want a guy to change who he is just to make me happy... is it the same for guys, are they all looking for the same thing??

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 13:54 ID:1MVZNlIv

I think there's a difference between changing yourself and improving yourself. No, no one should change who they are, ever, to get someone. But improving yourself? There's always room for improvement, and most importantly of all, it's something that benefits you.

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9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 13:59 ID:axQFnrgZ

>>7

>>i know i would never want a guy to change who he is just to make me happy... is it the same for guys, are they all looking for the same thing??
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10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-24 04:24 ID:7mvEGrwB

>>9

thanks a ton, it makes a lot of sense the things you say