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1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 04:25 ID:WOuHU65Q

Do you ever wonder if you're with the right person? I mean, I'm in a loving relationship, and he's everything I could have ever wanted, but sometimes I get these homosexual temptations to be with a chick, and I dunno how to feel about that. I really don't think I can go through my entire life without at least having sex with a woman, so how should I feel?

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 04:40 ID:5qtx6WNk

It's normal. If you're going to fuck a chick, though, make sure he either doesn't find out or doesn't care.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 11:56 ID:ZBODEWWH

Don't mistake desire and fantasms for love.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 12:56 ID:4mJGZp19

You could tell him about it. He'll probably think it's hot and/or encourage your desire to explore.

From what I've seen, most guys are understanding about this sort of thing (especially if they find it hot).

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 13:34 ID:edP0xyEN

You don't mention whether are you sexually attracted to your boyfriend, so are you? in the same way as you are/have been to chicks? If not, its quite possible it's the wrong relationship for you. If you are, well, then maybe you are bisexual, however assuming you are in a monogomous relationship, you shouldn't cheat on your partner.

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6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 16:59 ID:FMKp/lax

Just because you have sexual fantasies/needs that aren't fullfilled by the person you're with, doesn't mean they're not the right person for you. It's entirely unrelated.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 17:48 ID:Heaven

I want to rape a chick.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 20:19 ID:WOuHU65Q

OP here:

Well, he knows that I'm bi, and that I have these desires to interact with a woman, and that we would talk about it if ever a situation should come about. But like...I don't think I'd be comfortable about it even then. I don't want to cheat on him. I love him. I really don't think I can go on in my life without him by my side after being together for such a long time, yet, my main attraction is towards women, and I only really think about them outside of my normal thoughts.

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9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 21:13 ID:9U4msWat


>my main attraction
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10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 21:33 ID:edP0xyEN


You may be able to deal with it now, but over time its going to get difficult for you and possibly more difficult for your boyfriend.

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11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-22 23:00 ID:Heaven

Find another bi girl and have a threesome!
Win-win-win situation!

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-05-23 20:14 ID:WOuHU65Q

OP here:

By main attraction, I meant which sex I preferred, not anything else.

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