Yeah I know what you mean. The thing is, I'm not exactly the type of girl who cares about clothing. I don't wear make-up, and honestly, this isn't lack of modesty, I think I'm not bad-looking. I know this might sound a bit egocentric but I don't dress up for guys, I want them to notice me first for my personality (don't we all).
And he does gives me small touches once in a while, like...massaging my shoulders but really quick as in saying: "I'm here."
But he does that to everyone. The massage thing. And the touches. You know what I mean? He's ... "him" ... to everyone. No special touches for me.
But the next time he touches me like I mentioned Ill try to "answer" him equally. And watch his reaction.