Okay, my girlfriend broke up with me- about 3 months ago- and left me for another guy. I said "Well, I can't make you love me, so I guess I'll just let you go..." and she asked if we could remain friends. I said yes, and we kept in touch.
uhm.. well u know what? maybe its better to just stop communication for the moment. yea i think u did right. somehow maybe it was her who hasn't gotten over you. i am a girl myself but she's really weird aye. maybe she's trying the have the whole cake and eat it too. anyways, we all know that's not possible, aye?so i think u are right in cutting her off and i liked it when u said that when she's finally alright then to be friends after. u are really being such a nice person after all thats done to u. thats great!! will continue to cheer you on!! update us then!!
Doesn't seem to me like you did anything wrong, OP. My advice (this coming from a girl) is to hang around your guy friends more. Possibly explain the whole thing to your sister, since she may be more likely to actually listen to your side of the story.
uhmm... hehe.. good point. at first i had to do a double take cause you guys had the same username, haha. so was thinking really hard out whether or not i was replying right but i was anyway, so yea you have a good point. i just hope the original poster would be able to read this and tell us what he thinks :D
She is being a manipulative, crazy bitch.
uhmm.. such hard words..
She's a worthless bitch.
She isn't good with herself with her new boyfriend and is making you suffer too so she won't feel alone in her misery.
She wants your attention but thats it.
She is in the wrong for bringing up sex topics. That's not something you just randomly talk about with friends, she crossed the line. Also, she knew before she wrote that that it would upset you, but said it anyway and tried to cover it up by saying "oh nevermind you wouldn't want to know". By all means tell your sister that and hopefully she will defend you to her girl friends.
>>Now that I think about it, though, she may be having trouble getting over you.
Uh, if she's having trouble getting over me, then why did she leave me? Puhleez.
She's a BITCH. You did a good thing, stick with it/
Girls can be stupid bitches. It sounds like she loves the attention or she wouldn't provoke you like that, and she probably loves the attention/sympathy from her friends.
I'm girl, and I'm totally on your side, OP.
Agreed with many, many posters above me.
She is clearly unhappy with her current boyfriend AND herself. She takes pleasure from the upset of others and it would've made her feel GOOD to know you were still wallowing in misery over her. Cut off communication or, if you still must talk, don't let her bait you.
I'm going to cut off contact with her; I ain't got time to deal with this shit. That might incur her wrath further, but whatever, I'll block her # and AIM SN. If our mutual girl friends keep "siding" with her in this bullshit high-school-esque drama, then that's their problem.
I would just cut off contact/not talk to her. Don't play her game.
This girl seems like she's psycho, and I know some people that would actually pull a stunt like what I mentioned. Regardless, you know her and I don't, so I can't really say anything about her motives or anything like that.
In my experience, the easiest and fastest way to get over some girl is to cut off all contact. If you keep her out of sight, you'll keep her out of your head. just don't dip into the pool of drama that she's starting. cut off all contact, and move on. maybe when you're finally over her, you can start talking.
Well, perhaps there's some wierdness about you, you're not telling us about, yeah? Because there's always two sides of the story and people are rarely just random assholes. They all got their reasons.
She's a bitch, ignore her.
I agree with >>3. Two can play at that game.
Get your sister on your side. Blood is thicker than water.
Make it look sound like you're the victim (which you are). Explain to your sister rationally, and when she says "You could have handled it better", point out that you are human. She didn't behave like an angel either, and there was no reason for your ex to spread rumours after. Once you get your sister on your side, she will probably influence the other girls to change their view.
Just ignore her. Don't let yourself get too mad about these sort of things.
OP, girl = crazy fucking bitch who should STFU.
You aren't doing a thing wrong, but you shouldn't be worried about this whole issue. If anyone tells you you're possessive, etc, then just say "Perhaps you should hear what the story was from my side before deciding that.", and then don't make an attempt to tell them unless they indicate that they want to hear.
i think shes a slutty cunt.
i kinda had the same experience as >>1
yeah that bitch just wants some drama, be glad she is gone and you don't have to deal with that her anymore. just dont play her stupid games and you will be fine
Oh God, just when I thought it was over...
...She's told a few people that I raped her. Thankfully she hasn't told any authorities that, but she told a few of our mutual female friends that.
so we've been telling you shes A FUCKING CUNT
lol, she sounds adorable
I know this is totally 6 months late, but her new boyfriend calls me up outta nowhere today; he just dumped her because he was sick of her bullshit; partially because he thinks I'm a cool dude and she was starting to attempt to pit him against me... Among other things.
So could you tell the whole story? Most of us just come here for the stories... makes my day hearing a good yarn. Admittedly not as good as a good book or game of chess but it is pleasant in any case.