am not even sure if im posting this topic on the right board but yea some people can easily say love but really when u choose love how is it that after friendship rarely continues? is it even worth choosing love? is the saying "it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all" really ok then? is it justifiable? how about friendship? what do u feel about this? im just thinking about my personal life but until im ready to share into the world ill keep the questions really general:) i hope i can learn from you guys..
You're post is a bit confusing. Do you mean you're confused if you should continue a friendship or lead it into the next level?
Friendship is a nice thing and all, but if your case is as Nonymous says, then if you feel you're ready to go to the next level, then I say you go and do it.
It's true that sometimes, lovers who start out as friends tend to abandon their friendship because, hey, they're lovers now! But I think friendship is more important that romantic love. True friends will stay friends even if they become lovers but then break up.