Is it unusual to be scared of breaking up with someone? like for many reasons such as the fact you've been together for so long and you are to close with that person.
My girl and i have been goin out 10 months, but i'm just not feeling it anymore. she's just been doing things that i find really annoying and doesnt stop. I dont think it'll work out and i want to break up. but i'm scared. i'm scared that i'll end up regreting what i did. is that common? if so, how long does that regret last after the break up?
the regret will last till you move on to the next gf.
i've been with my girlfriend from 3 1/2 years now (anniversary is in November)...but we broke up THREE times and we went through a lot of turmoil and stress. Yet, there were a lot of factors why we are still together...but it's a long story.
If her actions are annoying enough to make you want to break up with her, then the relationship probably isn't meant to be. When you love someone, you accept her no matter what. I remember having a long term relationship with this girl. Even though we both did some things that irked the other, we both accepted each other and loved each other. Why we broke up is a completely different matter.
well, it's just the kinda situations i get into with her that make me want to drop the relationship. Like, it feels as if she depends on me to make things better for her 24/7 (support) and make her feel better. whenever any little thing goes wrong she calls me. and little things happen a lot. And then, she's bipolar. she's attempted to commit suicide a few times before and i'm scared that if i do break up with her then she'll stop taking her meds and commit suicide. I mean, whenever we get into a huge fight she attempts. i can only imagine what'll happen if i break up with her...
Tell your present truthfully. Tell her what you want to talk about because that's how a relationship should work. You need to be honest. Even if you would regret or not this must be done now or it'll get worse. I hope it works out! -Kira.