there's this girl who i've been talking to for a while. i don't know if she likes me. are there any clues or things i should look for?
Does she initiate discussions? Is she curious about you? If you want to go somewhere and ask her to come along, does she agree or is really easy to persuade? Does she often initiate physical contact/doesn't decline it when you initiate it (be it hugs or things as simple as hand on shoulder etc)
I'm not the OP, but thanks for that list. That's just eased my worries a lot for a girl I like.
i've been talking to her recently sometimes we'll wave or say hi or have a quick discussion. she always smiles whenever i talk to her. what do you think?
She may just enjoy talking to you and that's all. Unless she's dropping hints (flirting, hand holding, blushing), you really can't tell unless you ask her (which is a really bad idea IMO). If you like her then tell her, just because she doesn't reciprocate your feelings it doesn't mean she never will.
I mean i've been dumped a few times let's face it..... but i don't think i said it at the right time. When would be the right time to say it?
ok how do i know when to make a move?
Smiling doesn't mean a thing. I'm quite serious.
If anything listed in >>2 really shows from her, then it might be a good idea to try a move. I don't really know how guys view this, but everything >>2 says was true for me and it would be beyond happiness if he starting hinting that he liked me too. However, if she doesn't do any of those, it will NOT be a good idea to try anything.
What about the 'suppressed smile'? I know it tends to show up more in boys (which might be one of the hints you're searching for by the way) but am not sure if they do count for girls, as they tend to have more "output" on the face expression. This is when they like you, and can't keep from smiling as soon as you speak to them; however as it may seem weird they hide it, but you still get that slightly suppressed smile (slight smirk, smiling eyes).
lol, too true. guys =/= hints AT ALL. wede prefer things just to come up at slap us XD
I do this all the time when I talk to girls I like. When they come over I'm like HIII :D then I realise I shouldn't be standing there grinning and bite my lips which doesn't do much to hide the smile and usually ends up in me giggling.
Yeah.... it's kind of hard to fight when you see that one person... unless you change your mind....
Does she initiate any physical contact? Gentle pat on the back or shoulder or anything like that?
Rumor has it that's a sign.
Yeah. She'll give me hugs or pats on the shoulder. Is that a sign?
>>16 I would say yes.
Try it the other way around. Hug her, hold her hand - see how she reacts. If she feels comfortable with that, you're on a good way.
I don't know why people are so complicated. I am a girl and when I like guy, I usually tell him. Why should I tease and make him wait...that's just mean.
Is it really good to be straightforeword and come out with my feelings? I mean that would also be a bad descision too.
Of course not, don't believe anything any women ever tells you about what they want in a man.
On review of my statement, it seems sarcastic.
But it's not.
ok. now you're all confusing me. What is the best thing to do?
Too short description. You only mention you speak to her for awhile. Not necessary she would like you.