What kind of activities do you like to do? Going out to places where groups of people with similar interests to you is a good way to meet women. For instance, if you're a gaming/comic nerd, try hanging out at your friendly local gamestore, especially at any events they might sponsor that coincide with a specific interest you have. (Although, perhaps game store was a bad suggestion, as there don't tend to be too many of us women there...)
Also, don't look too hard >>11 Of course, to get to this point you have to be talking to girls. I think the hardest thing for me is not seeing women as potential partners, because, in some sense, I think you really have to be able to do that; see them for the person they are, not as what /might/ be.
Very good advice.