I'm a young gay guy and I have a profile at this one sort of Myspace-ish GLBT fetish website.
I just got this following IM:
What are you scared of? He's not going to come through your screen and rape you.
And as you or anyone in the fetish scene should know, D/s relationships are all about consent and trust. You're not going to be anyone's ponyboy unless you want to be, kiddo.
Then don't post profiles on websites like that. What did you expect from a site like that, anyway?