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Getting a YES answer more easily(?) (8)

1 Name: lulz : 2008-06-08 20:47 ID:lHpl7pq7

so, theirs this girl (lol, wow, original eh?) that im pretty into...
but i hate regection. it sucks. generally, being the shy person i am when it comes to dating, i wait till i know if their intrested or not.

were ok friends, and i want to ask her out...but i dont want a 'no' answer. i dont even know if shes thinking of dating atm, but i want her TO if i ask.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-09 02:02 ID:eoFuD1K4

dont ask them to come out cos thats wussy. be casual about it and say something like "we should go get lunch sometime" or go catch a movie or something. dont act as if she is the one in control. women want a man in control because thats what we do best; they dont want a pussy who begs for their acceptance.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-09 03:29 ID:AIhIKCet

Says it harsh but has it right.

Ask "Let's go to lunch", or "Hey, I take you out to lunch on xxx", or even more ballsy "Ok, so xxxday, xxx hour for the lunch, don't be late".

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4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-09 04:37 ID:gb7+OuPw


Watch out though, some girls may few pressured into going out with you and may read some of your actions as hostile because of this. If she's a shy passive kind of girl being direct may affront her and make her even shyer.

5 Name: lulz : 2008-06-10 03:38 ID:YGGUcvnj

bleh. #2 middle ""Hey, I take you out to lunch on xxx"," sounds about right :p

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-10 03:43 ID:AIhIKCet

Not if you say it in a 'funny/relaxed' way. It triggers complicity, and shows you're able and willing to take the lead. Which is especially effective on shy girls.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-10 03:48 ID:zc19Z0XI

Say it like this : Friday - Movies - Date - Be ready. (100%bonus effect is said at the end of the day,activity)

8 Name: lulz : 2008-06-11 00:57 ID:Gk5+Rhgz

thanks everyone. half those sound like me anyway :p

now i just need to do it....