>Guys who don't sleep with a lot of girls and are faithful and nice and affectionate = great guy who, sadly, is very less likely to get a girlfriend than his asshole counterpart
Sad, but true. And I'm not talking about party girls or whatever.
>Okay, assume this is true, I don't think this goes anything beyond curiosity.
Curiosity for one of the things that is usually defined as the most bonding and beautiful experience ever. (ok, I'm not talking about the inconvenients and symptoms; I'll assume that if you want the good you take the bad).
>A girl with a great personality, but average looks will definitely not have the same "success" as a guy with a great personality and average looks.
Yes, it's true. And there goes the pressure to be the "alpha male", and such. Just look around the board to have examples of guys who are great but are suffocated, and thus desperate.
It's a different kind of pressure, but it's one after all, and sometimes forces people to redefine themselves to just stand a chance.