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massive problem...help! (9)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-17 02:02 ID:cgunYPDa

i have a major issue: i just cannot see how any girl could like me. i see it as an impossibility, and i cant really explain why. whenever im talking to a girl im interested in (or any girl, really), something is always telling me "she hates you, you have no chance,just leave"

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-17 03:01 ID:87B+vQ3a

That kind of attitude is part of the problem.

3 Name: Anonette : 2008-06-17 03:11 ID:bQs+Dbaf

>>1

>whenever im talking to a girl im interested in (or any girl, really), something is always telling me "she hates you, you have no chance,just leave"
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4 Name: Daydreamer : 2008-06-20 12:55 ID:hCfVBAu9

>>2
Agreed. As they say, you cannot truly love others before you learn to love yourself.

Two ways to learn to love yourself are by self-improvement and by accepting who you are. The solution should be a different mixture of those two for everyone.

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-21 04:07 ID:p5+2It9i

http://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/thinking_ahead.png

6 Name: Admirable Secret : 2008-06-21 11:38 ID:TtaaGHLs

>Stop thinking that every girl you meet is girlfriend material, some people are better as friends.

Hate to break it to you, but this isn't the way a guy should think in today's society. There's too much pressure on men to be proactive about these things.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-21 15:16 ID:miJgHQob

>>4
Listen to this person.

I absolutely hate myself and can't see why anyone would like me because if I don't love myself then how can I expect anyone else to love me?

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8 Name: H.K. : 2008-06-26 20:11 ID:/1TBIQmm

>>1
You've got to get over those kinds of feelings and attitudes. That's whats stopping you from anything at all.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-27 05:30 ID:yq7c27Nx

Actually I think >>3 is right about not thinking of every girl you meet as girlfriend material. Obviously you are in a mental state where you shouldn't be even thinking about being in a romantic relationship.

And to beat yourself up, everybody hates themselves lol.