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1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-19 14:50 ID:zCzXqr8M

I've had a very bad experience with my love life, never had a gf, have lots of rejection that i've lost confidence in it. This girl that i really like right now, i know her for 2 years and in the past i've been rejected by her which was 2 years ago. we're pretty close and she really trust me. I have a really good thing going on with her as she supports me and i support her for a long time, the thing is i'm scared if i get rejected this time i will loose her even as a close friend, cos things are always different when i get rejected =[ i have a higher chance then i had 2 years ago cos she reckons i'm talented cos i make my own music/ films in my own time. I really dont know what to do cos i dont want to wreck my friendship with her either, please tell me what i need to do, i dont have anyone else but her left

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-19 23:19 ID:M0qSFYLt

Buy her a nice gift. Make it look like you didn't have any intentions with it, just something you happened to see. Like it means nothing. Don't ask about it later.
Wait a few months and then repeat, until something changes. All the while remaining (normal) friends of course.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-20 05:19 ID:8rWWCdPq

Buy her a gift?! Haha, sorry buying gifts doesn't win affections, that is a horrible idea. So what if nothing happens? Keep buying her gifts forever?

OP, what do you mean anyone but her left? You sound like you're running out of time. As for the girl, I doubt it is going to happen, you're in the friend zone.

4 Name: OP : 2008-06-20 17:09 ID:yM+1hWMv

today the girl emailed me something really personal about her family, but later at night when she came onto msn, her name had a "S2 LY" since last week but wasnt as revealing as it was today. out of curiousity i asked her "ooo wat does LY mean?" and she said "ooohh the ly thing is personal lol" and she just tried to change the subject when i asked her "oo is it someone u like" and she said "kinda". if she did like someone or did have a boyfriend, i dont think theres any reason not to let me know since shes been saying so many personal stuff to me and i really doubt having someone you like or have a boyfriend would be that big to not tell me.

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-20 17:13 ID:ZYEVQGTg

Just stay friends with her. You don't have to hide that you like her in that way, just don't try and make it too obvious in a sense that you're making passes, and do not put her in a position where she's forced to either reject or accept you as more than a friend.

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6 Name: Admirable Secret : 2008-06-21 12:08 ID:TgReoiew

>because out of no where i thought she liked someone else, was feeling depressed about it obviously so i started to die from the convo, out of no where she asked me "r u ok?, i asked her "why u ask?" and she said "ohh cos u sound kinda down, through the net if u know wat i mean o_o", but i just told her "hmm...just tired" and she kept asking "u sure D:::: get some rest kk, plzz".
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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-22 17:19 ID:oPvjg0IR

Or, she cares about him as a friend, knows he likes her and doesn't want to see him depressed. That happens too.