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2 women, both friends... (6)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-21 21:56 ID:qN7bHOiN

I'm in a funny situation, and although nothing's really happened yet, I'd like to get some advice just in case such a situation occurs.

The other night, when I was out at the club, I ran into two women that I hadn't seen in a while: one was an ex of a friend of mine, and the other her best friend. I was glad to see them and was having fun talking to them and catching up with them. However, at one point, they both separated and mingled apart. I was talking to the first girl's best friend for a bit, and we really hit it off, and she said "Let's get together sometime this week, you're really cool!" and she gave me her number/I got hers. NOICE. (NOTE: earlier in the night, I had given the first girl my number)

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-22 17:49 ID:WwqATGBJ

Your friend's ex's friend is the obvious choice to date. She is not coming out of a relationship that just ended. She gave you a lot of positive signals even though you'd only just met. BUT, she is best friends with the other girl, and that is going to cause at least a little friction.

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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-23 04:32 ID:mxZGuunI

That wasn't the question.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-26 14:39 ID:qN7bHOiN

Oooookay, need a bit of help here.

I've got to find a way of going about this gracefully now, the following exchanges via text message have taken place:

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-26 15:13 ID:dnWxvXcA

I vote you give girl 1 a lot of space, she needs constant attention/affirmation which is a big negative for me in a relationship. DO NOT tell her about your feelings, but try to convey them.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-26 17:21 ID:qN7bHOiN

I'm not interested in Girl 1 at all. What I'm worried about is if she'll raise Hell and cause shit in my life if I go after her best friend. I know she doesn't own me or her friend, but fuckin' a, I don't know what to expect with her after all those weird texts.