Oooookay, need a bit of help here.
I've got to find a way of going about this gracefully now, the following exchanges via text message have taken place:
"Please call monday."
"hey i'll be back from XXXXXXXXX this evening. hopefully we can meet up at XXXXXXX tonight!"
"it sucks being without a job and being lonely"
"Im sorry im sorry i ever wasted your time"
Ooookay, yeah, this is going to be a touchy one, because I know both will be out at the club tonight