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[Wrong way] Going from a close to a long-distance relationship [Curious] (5)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-22 22:05 ID:eLOqptuy

There's a lot of talk about LDRs on this board -- whether they're worth it, how to handle them, etc. I was wondering if anyone here had advice or experience to share about transitioning from a strong, established, close-proximity relationship with someone to a long-distance relationship with that person fortified by Skype, instant messaging, email and letters.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-23 04:44 ID:lnlNKyXq

I don't think it's gonna work, dude, unless you're also best friends and the long distance is only for a few months.

Partners aren't meant to be apart. You'd better reconcile yourself to this fact.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-23 15:46 ID:iU1p+ZTA

>>2
I wouldn't be as definitive as >>2, but the duration of the long-distance thing is important.

I think if you are to pull it off, you must have a defined period, and have for main objective to get back together as soon as possible.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-24 15:33 ID:Boxgw9n3

The person who's 'going away' MUST always reassure and provide a sense of security for the one 'left behind'.

i don't care how confident or secure someone is...if their partner is miles away hanging out and having life changing experiences with loads of new people...its still gonna suck.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-24 21:27 ID:ewCAU49P

Doesn't work. I've tried 3 and all 3 times ended miserably.