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I feel like I am being screwed over... (10)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-26 06:47 ID:vkNAp3Z5

I have never had a gf before but...

I met this girl at a concert too months ago...
And we finally met up and saw a movie on the weekend. We hooked up, cuddled, etc.

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2 Name: 43 : 2008-06-26 07:54 ID:jZDow9jF

She thinks you guys are rushing.

People tend to go on a few dates before going into the relationship stage.

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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-06-26 08:22 ID:vkNAp3Z5

Sweet... I think the main thing is that she broke up with her ex a couple of months back or some such... and she wants to wait to make sure everything will be ok.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-01 10:37 ID:10d0GySx

OP here again...
Now she is ignoring me... Not texting back nor logging on msn nor replying on social networking sites... even tho she is replying to others. I don't think I have done anythign wrong.

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-01 12:30 ID:h/sNxqAG

Okay, let her go. Like, totally. Pursuing her some more is only going to worsen the situation. Give her some room, don't do anything, and if she feels better about you in the future she'll be the one to resume communications.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-01 18:36 ID:RumexAG9

I agree with 5. It'd be one thing if she was using the "I'm not ready for a serious relationship with you" thing, but if she's ignoring, I would drop it completely.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-02 10:22 ID:10d0GySx

OP here. I guess that means I can go have fun these holidays in California, and not feel guilty then. :P

8 Name: devil's ivy : 2008-07-02 10:27 ID:KD+ZQrQK

go for it! good to know you bounce back so fast ;D

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-02 11:08 ID:10d0GySx

Lol. No, but hooking up with randoms is a good way to get over it!

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-02 11:15 ID:KD+ZQrQK

haha good point. i like your attitude xD have fun.