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16 y/o crush is engaged ... (12)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-01 03:31 ID:ix9Nstwt

I received news today that my crush's boyfriend popped the question. Normally I hold nothing against someone for things in the past, but I know they've only been dating for a month. She's only sixteen, and despite being mature for her age the tendency for bad decision making is still there. Her boyfriend is twenty, and I'm not sure if he's a quality guy. Apparently he treats her well.

I've been through some hard times in my life. Like near-death. And I really want her to avoid that by making positive decisions. Personally, I know their relationship probably won't last until she turns the big one eight. I won't capitalize on that though. It's beyond the point we could be anything but friends (hi, scared little bitch here), and I'm happy with that.

What should I say to her? I want her to be safe. If she gets pregnant or her boyfriend dumps her, I will beat him within an inch of his life. On the other hand, I will support her through anything.