I am interested with a girl in my ex-company, we worked in different depts and she is 3 years older then me which is 31. She knows my feelings towards her because one of her friends which I also know told her that. However she doesn't seem to be interested in me as she seldom reply when I try to chat with her in messenger and a few times logging off immediately when I am go online. I know my chances are very slim almost 0. Nevertheless, one day coincidently when I was going home waiting for the bus, she saw me as she was also waiting for another bus in the same bus stop. My heart skip a beat when I saw her approaching but in the end we chatted for a good 10 mins! That was the first time we actually had a chat and that is when I realise shes actually quite a friendly person despite the coldness I get from her all this while and for the past 1 year, exchanging waves and smile is the closest I get in our work place. Maybe she is just being kind to me and doesn't want to avoid upon seeing me thus making the situation awkard. I still like her although I am no longer in that company. Any advices preferbly not dramatic ones... ^^
She doesn't like you. She only talked to you so she wouldn't seem rude. She doesn't want any type of relationship with you outside of an office setting. On the slime chance that she changed her entire outlook on you in the 10 minutes you spent with her, you have a slime chance to be a distant FRIEND for the foresee-able future. A romantic one would take at minimum a month to build up.
I guess you are right Akina, I am pushing it too hard. Guess its time to stop. Thanks for the wake up call
Your chances are slime.