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panicking way too much about this (7)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-03 22:11 ID:FaEC3hAq

This guy I've liked for years is coming to stay with me next week while searching for a new apartment for himself. He's going to stay the entire week and only has work one day of that week. Soooo I'm going to have a lot of time to fill. We've had various semi-sexual encounters in the past so I'm not really sure what angle to take on this. I also am socially dumb when it comes to planning things to do. I really would like to live with him in the future so I want this to leave a good impression. What sort of things should I do to make this a positive and relationship building experience?

2 Name: 43 : 2008-07-03 22:39 ID:Cs9ERqyv

It would help if you told us what kind of relationship you have with him and how old both of you are.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-03 23:08 ID:FaEC3hAq

both in mid-twenties, we've had a relationship that is definitely more than friends but we havent ever dated

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-03 23:16 ID:uxVd8rtY

What do you think HE could be expecting from this encounter? Do you think he just asked you because you're close friends, or that he could have some motivation behind it?
Why does he stay a whole week if he only has a day of work?

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-03 23:23 ID:FaEC3hAq

he doesn't have anywhere else to stay at the moment. i dont know what motivation he has for doing this, though. its probably because we are close friends. however he has another person he could stay with so Im not sure. hes talked about us living together in the past fairly seriously too

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-04 00:10 ID:uxVd8rtY

Okay... so one thing you can do is probably be playful with him when he's here, over-acting the fact you're living together "for a while".

Also you could make a good dinner (complete with the dessert) on the day he works to surprise him when he gets back home.

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-04 00:18 ID:FaEC3hAq


Thanks, I'll try that