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1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-18 07:02 ID:EZnz8+L5

For the past week I have been bumping into this one girl across this city. At first I saw her at the movie theatre with what seemed to be a boyfriend. So I glanced at her for about 30 seconds and she seemed to notice. She looked back and left the theatre.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-18 07:08 ID:Heaven


3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-18 13:57 ID:Heaven

Just say "I notice you're infatuated with me. I'll let you date me if you want."

4 Name: 43 : 2008-07-18 21:22 ID:q5gRjmtN

I doubt you will actually do it.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-18 22:53 ID:mc2JLHt6

I think this staring battle is kinda cute...

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-18 23:29 ID:Heaven

Spice things up. Smile. If staring battle continues, add things like ":P" faces, grimaces, etc. After some times, go up to her and say, something like "okay, you win, you're too strong at staring battles. This is the first time I lose one, may I ask your name?".

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-19 00:21 ID:OF0qFAYo

that is So cute!
Yea i agree with >>6, hold a serious face and let a smile out. That will catch her attention. Then later go up and talk to her =]

I have a good feeling about this :P Good luck!!

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-19 01:10 ID:nhiMhPKc

buy a pipe and monocle. when she looks at you, put the pipe in your mouth an monocle in your eye
or guy that fake nose/bushy eyebrows/glasses thing. put that on next time you see her.
i don't know if im telling you howto break the ice, or what i jsut think woud be funny.

9 Name: Setsuna : 2008-07-19 01:14 ID:dyIxMOKq


10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-19 01:35 ID:Heaven

Oh yeah, that would be AWESOME.

Better thing would be buying tons of these stuff and changing it every different time you meet her.

11 Name: Setsuna : 2008-07-19 01:50 ID:dyIxMOKq


12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-19 09:27 ID:d0lEDyHk

Exactly what I was going to type.

I've gotten into a couple of staring battles before. What I do is give them a slightly raised eyebrow in a confused look kind of way, and then flash them a smile as if "i-don't-know-what's-going-on-but-i'll-just-smile-anyway". This is coming from a girl, but I guess guys could pull it off too.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-19 09:28 ID:d0lEDyHk

Oh, I forgot to mention that on both occasions, I've gotten a smile back, and follow-up conversation.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-19 10:07 ID:Kt4nDqKC

on next staring battle with her, make her notice you are putting your hand between your legs and start fapping. she will come over and give you a bj. ... maybe, but worth a try.

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-20 03:58 ID:EZnz8+L5

Wow! Thanks everyone for your suggestions. I am replying now on a Saturday so as soon as school starts again on Monday I am going to try your suggestions out! The whole monocle and cigar thing is hilarious. But if I try this is it maybe too ridiculous? Where do I find those anyways haha

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-20 11:57 ID:nhiMhPKc

if a monocle doesn't get a smile and break the ice, it's at least funny and you'll have a good story to tell

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-20 12:40 ID:Heaven

Being ridiculous never killed anyone. And you never have as much panache as when you're ridiculous on purpose and are happy with it.

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-20 14:13 ID:Heaven

The monocle thing is over the top. Seriously, you'd pick up more stares from everyone else, and not the kind that you want. It's trying way too hard at being random. I reckon you should do something spontaneous and less effortless. Like a wink and a small/big smile. Keep it simple, stupid.

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-21 06:28 ID:ljD6m1Lh

you are boring >.>

but i sugest next time, make a funny face! (and keep us posted :]

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-21 08:04 ID:c4ijuBI4

a funny face has the risk of being an ugly face. practice in a mirror first if you choose that

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-21 10:39 ID:Heaven

maybe she thinks your stalking her

22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-22 04:22 ID:Heaven

No, I am being realistic. A lot can be initiated with a wink. If you pull it off, it's smooth and mysterious. It indicates that OP is interested in said girl. The monocle and cigar get up has a way less success rate, and can be interpreted in a myriad of ways. She might think that you're taking the piss out of her, or worse, classify you as a freak. For one thing, she doesn't know that the get-up is specifically orientated at her. She will probably think that you're wearing it just for the hell of it, trying hard at being random. I suggest less effort, more results.

23 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-22 07:56 ID:EZnz8+L5

OP here. Today basically consisted of me thinking I would be able to pull something off, but alot of things about my crush have gotten confusing! After waking up maybe 30 minutes later than I am supposed to, I rushed out without taking my binder. Train arrives at the station 5 minutes after the bell and I am relieved because there is still a huge crowd of students leaving the station. I weave through some kids finally get in school. As a true procrastinator would I thought maybe I should buy some time and look around. Which is essentially me taking the long way and peering into a bunch of classes like an owl.

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24 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-22 08:14 ID:GrVaLVgU

Thrilling stuff.

25 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-22 11:39 ID:n8QDDQ51



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26 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-22 19:49 ID:EZnz8+L5

Late again today. Every damn room from bath room to foyer was pitch black inside. The lower east wing of the school (which her class was in) was dead empty. Turns out all the three credit courses are out (I'm in five credit), and I had absoulutely no idea. Quitting isnt my thing espeicially at this point (yea this is leaps and bounds for me), but I cant help feeling emotionally crippled.

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27 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-23 10:12 ID:Heaven

If being incomprehensibly random works, then kudos to OP. I'm just telling it from a girl's perspective, what I would be attracted to, and recommending the best chance of success.

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28 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-25 10:05 ID:EZnz8+L5

Actually she isnt on break, sorry for the misunderstanding. Summer school for her is over, because her course ends earlier. I still have a whole week left. After walking around some more I did see her photo, and apparently she already graduated. It also showed a picture of her on the sports team bulletin. But thanks for helping me out everyone. Talking to someone you like is pretty difficult, but body language says alot on its own espeicially because if you havent talked to someone you liked and just see them around. What movements you have make a huge difference.

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29 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-25 13:02 ID:Heaven


>If being incomprehensibly random works, then kudos to OP.
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30 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-26 09:36 ID:Heaven

Miracles could happen too.