I get the impression you're going to get all wound up and totally miss my meaning, so let me add this...
You say touching people makes you uncomfortable. Awesome. Whatever. Supposing this is true, you HAVE NOT found a boyfriend until you've found the guy who for some reason, you don't just feel comfortable touching -- you want to (indeed, must) touch.
tl;dr: be honest with yourself about your feelings and you're far less likely to hurt others by leading them on.