I was over at my female friend's house and we were cuddling and watching Sci Fi together (fun, fun!) Anyway, we were laying down next to each other, on our sides, her facing away from me towards the tv, and she took my hand (my arm was around her) and brought it close to her mouth and just held it there, close enough where I started to caress her lips a little. After a while, I had to leave to get back home, so I walked out with her, and when I got to my car, we just sorta stood there for a moment, saying that we'd see each other the next day. Then I left...
The first thing you should do is to find out about her feelings about you, even though its sort of obvious, and if that doesnt work confess your feelings to her about her. Then just take it from there,What im trying to say is that you should find out how you both feel about each other first rather than rushing straight into kissing her which some women might find too aggressive
I think my friend may be staying the night at my place at the end of the week. I'm thinking that would be the best chance I get to see where everything is going. Yeah, my main worry was that it may come off as "too aggressive" if I just busted out and kissed her. A friend suggested maybe not to just right out kiss her on the lips, but maybe while looking at each other, take her hand and kiss it, or bring it up to my lips, etc. That, and maybe kiss her on the forehead when she's cuddling into my chest.
don't kiss the hand. thats lame. forehead kiss is alright, i guess. but if your that close, you might as well go for lips anyways
One of the best kiss-walk is: find a pretext to get close to her ear (be it a whisper or "you've got something in your hair don't move" or whatever), smell her hair, tell her she smells great, kiss her hair, kiss her chin then bazoom go for the lips. If she's not okay, you'll know in the first steps and it's no offense, you just made a compliment and if things get awkward, just fall back. If things go well, you'll be sure she's into it.
tried that that thing once...quite a good idea anyway...
tried that thing once...quite a good idea anyway...
What about just a cuddle kiss? Watch a good movie and cuddle, and start stroker her legs a bit, in a kinky way, but not groping. Lightly Lightly Lightly also caress her body in general, but again, no groping. Start to move in to her inner thighs, and lightly caress there for a little bit, but then act a bit shy (depending on who you are, you might actually be shy), and back off a bit, and then just go on to holding her. Hold her for a little bit (5-10 minutes), and if she isn't totally backing away or weirded out by now, start caressing again. Depending on the position that you're in, after a while, kiss her on the lips, or if you can't, the neck. Make sure she knows you're going to kiss her, but don't just ask her if it's ok, get the signals from body language. If she seems to like it, do it some more. Remember that things might not go your way during all of this, but just go with the flow. Don't be too aggressive, but don't be a fucking geek, women aren't attracted to guys who aren't willing to take the initiative a little bit. Hell, after you've started, you just might find out that she takes over for a bit, or at least leads it in some direction.
Forehead kiss is too platonic, it screams to me, I think you are a sweetheart but i don't think of you that way. Even hand kiss beats it because thats like old world courtship style.
I think you really can't go wrong with just going for the kiss, just be really gentle and slow, cup her face in your hands, brush the hair away from her face, and all signs positive, go in for the kill.
May I ask how it turned out?
>>10 As a girl, I adore hand kisses. They're very romantic. They're respectful, and not necessarily sexual--while still conveying that you like her. It involves taking initiative, without being aggressive. Also, forehead kisses are ok, too--especially if you've been cuddling a lot. Just because you've kissed her hand or forehead doesn't mean you won't end up kissing her lips.