Hello, everyone. I'd like some advice from you all, if you'd be so kind as to provide. I've been with this woman for close to 4 years, and we were thinking of getting married.
Well, recently I've been talking to an ex of mine and she's made me completely change my feelings towards my fiance'. I've wanted this ex of mine for a very long time, however, I feel like I have absolutely no chance with her. She's said that she thinks of me as little other than a friend, but she has lead me on many a times before.
Well if this Ex of yours told you that while knowing you are engaged, it seems she is just leading you on again. She probably just wants you to want her. So don't do it. Also you've already proven that you don't truely love your fiance either....so don't do that either.
Yeah, like >>2 said, if you're willing to give up your almost-finance then I'm not sure how much you love her.
I'd give up on the ex because if she's talking to you in such a way that would change your feelings towards your girlfriend, then she's not looking out for your interests.
Why give up a good thing? Women want what they can't have, she is a classic example. Be good to your girlfriend now and she will treat you better than your could have.
Dump your ex, like cut all ties before she succeeds in ruining your life. I think you need revalue your feelings towards your girlfriend (without ex influence,dump the bitch), and move from there..but whatever you do, don't rush into your decision and if possible, tell your girlfriend that maybe you might not be ready for marriage.
Wow, you sound like an ex of mine. Go for what you have and not what you had. Respect what your ex says and don't try chasing after the past. The fact that you are considering chasing after her suggests that things aren't going so well between you and your current partner.
Dude sounds like you don't love your finance. So try and at least fuck your ex? Or are you settling? Well it's a pretty big question to trust to the internet...
I wish I could manage my finances better.