>If you put up with it she may be grateful later on and develop feelings for you.
Yeah, this is a brilliant plan. You can tell because thousands have used it before and the internet is full of people talking about their amazing sex lives and OH WAIT A SECOND HERE SOMETHING ISN'T QUITE RIGHT
I don't buy all this alpha male shit purely because it gets you the sort of woman who values power and money over all else, but there's a happy medium between total subservience and total domination. It doesn't have to be one or the fucking other.
If you sit around listening to this girl's problems thinking "God, when is she going to see me?", you're going to end up hating her. Don't wait for her. Make her see you.