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1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-20 21:26 ID:SrGNnbAv

Is it common for people to wank off to people they know, specifically lady friends? I personally feel very guilty about it after, like I'm some kind of stalker or a really fucked up person.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-20 23:18 ID:cdkWfbrb

Not being able to read people's thoughts or having access to a worldwide masturbation surveillance system, I can only speak for myself.


3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-21 00:00 ID:d/i0Q3dm

uh, I figure it might not be unusual in some circumstances. I personally wouldn't. Shit gets awkward. Especially if they're friends. That's what hentai is good for.

4 Name: Soccer Otoko : 2008-08-21 02:19 ID:x6b+SDB6


5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-21 03:24 ID:SrGNnbAv

A wanks a wank bra, it's like taking a shit, it doesn't mean a fucking thing.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-21 11:37 ID:x4YjzScI

I was under the impression that it was normal for guys to do that.
At least, I wouldn't put it past you guys.
Do you actually have feelings for them or what?

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-21 12:54 ID:xDzOtxDP



8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-21 13:16 ID:VkpczzM1

I once did this when I had no internet access for a few weeks.

No porn meant that I had to be more creative, you know?

9 Name: E : 2008-08-21 14:56 ID:LAS6tgQl

Ans long as it just wanking theres no harm done. It really only becomes a problem when you start spying or taking personal effects.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-21 17:59 ID:dyzquI9x

I can only speak for myself; but for about four months, over this winter, I was crazy horny for a friend of mine (yes, a girl). It actually started one morning when I woke up and had this xboxhueg boner, and she was all I could think of. So I proceeded to spank it, and fantasizing about her all the while.

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11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-21 19:25 ID:SrGNnbAv

OP here. It's not like I'm stealing their underwear or doing it to a picture of them. It's all in the mind.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-21 21:46 ID:Heaven

Then it's called fantasies and it's okay.

Oh, and most of you should realize that it's more than probable that at least one girl masturbated while thinking of you.

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13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-21 23:34 ID:Jg/soxV2

>it's more than probable that at least one girl masturbated

I came..........

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-22 00:05 ID:d/i0Q3dm


>it's more than probable that at least one girl masturbated while thinking of you.
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15 Name: bingo : 2008-08-22 04:33 ID:zMzsth79

for #14, I'm a white girl with a vietnamize boyfriend. I masterbate using his image often. I would say there are more girls attracted to asian guys then you think. You just have to learn to approach them.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-22 04:53 ID:p2bt0pyh


Truer words have never been spoken.

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17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-22 04:58 ID:p2bt0pyh


believe it or not, i dont spank it while thinking of girls i have feelings for. feelings = respect, while spanking it = only hot.

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-22 05:59 ID:Sj8pt++F

I cant masturbate to real persons. Only to anime and other fictional characters. I have tried to, but i cant. The simple thought of someone touching me in a perverted way makes me puke.

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-22 10:55 ID:xzK46K/P

what's in your head is your business, wank to whatever you like... just don't confuse the fantasy with reality. and, as a female who has encountered some creepy types, i must just reiterate that as long as you don't get all 'stalkery', it's all good.

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20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-22 13:27 ID:Heaven

Does it count if I'm Asian too?

And please, it's Vietnamese..not Vietnamize.

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-28 16:37 ID:S8990dUD

It could be worse.

You could be using photoshop to fake cum-shots on pictures of female friends.

22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-29 01:36 ID:6OUmiLkk


Who needs photoshop?

23 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-30 05:39 ID:Ax+YXR9q

In some circles sex between friends is normal. There are a lot of people who have casual sex. Just look @ craigslist ;)

24 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-30 16:54 ID:PqlfeRHK

I'm a girl and I've been struggling with this dilemma for quite some time. The thought of masturbating to someone I know makes me feel guilty. It's really hard, though, because this one guy-friend of mine turns me on like nothing else, and sometimes just thinking about him causes me to go into super-horny-mode. I used to have problems imagining us kissing and having sex, but I'm over that now and imagine having sex with him all the time, and usually in great detail.

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25 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-31 01:32 ID:Heaven

If you're hot (or even cute) in any way, there's a, say, 33% chance he already did.

26 Name: Akina : 2008-08-31 05:15 ID:Ax+YXR9q

Any warm blooded male would love fornicating with a woman. If you are not disgusting he will have sex with you. Just maybe not the 'love' like a romantic one.

27 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-31 16:42 ID:e6C/1ye+

33.3 recurring of course.

28 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-31 19:24 ID:FQI2+dx2

To answer the original question, I do it all the time... as in I have done it every single time for years now. I don't know why, but for some reason, I require to do it to people I know.

29 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-31 20:31 ID:Gsy9oXnL

i tried it... it's great but then i feel kinda guilty.... so i stopped doing it...

30 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-31 22:29 ID:Xrnkb/Cm

I have to be thinking about someone. And then I feel a bit strange about it, so the next time I think about someone else. And sometimes mid-way, I have to switch persons. I still think I'm doing it wrong.


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31 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-01 04:51 ID:eiBdT+PP

I think most guys crank it to girls they know. It's not our fault...

i lol'd

32 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-01 06:48 ID:PqlfeRHK


Haargh. I'm head over heels for the guy and I want a loving, meaningful relationship with him more than I want anything else. We're great friends and at times it seems the feelings are mutual. I try to drop hints, ("Thanks for making me a part of your day so often. Our time together is always the highlight of my week...") and I think he does, too ("I like your shirt/earrings/hair" or "I had a really great time tonight, thanks for coming out..."), but I think we're both holding back because we're such good friends. A physical relationship as lovers could jeopardize the mental relationship we have now as friends. So until I'm absolutely positive that he's interested in taking our relationship farther, I just can't pleasure myself to thoughts of him. If I knew he felt the same, it wouldn't be a problem. 'Til then, I guess I'll just keep stimulating myself to the thought of being raped by tentacles. I feel uncomfortable doing it to any real person and pretty much only masturbate while fantasizing about being ravaged by a monster or a machine or I masturbate to the thought of masturbating. Wow, I've never "said" the word "masturbate" so many times at once. Ack.

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33 Name: bingo : 2008-09-01 07:09 ID:dJ3jKUuZ

to the girl that has the hots for a good friend of hers. Maybe you should just talk to him about how you feel and see how he feels about you. It may be a mutual attraction, and you shouldn't deprive yourself on what could be a great relationship for the sake of a great friendship. See how you two feel, and maybe try slowly dating, taking your time to move from friendship to intimacy. He could want you just as much as you want him but feels that he's "stuck in the friend zone."

34 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-01 11:59 ID:Heaven



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35 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-03 07:14 ID:hJay1ENP


If I'm masturbating with a visual aid, usually porn. However if I'm merely fantasizing (ie, laying in bed before I go to sleep), then it's people I know, and sometimes actual past sexual experiences with ex-girlfriends.

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36 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-03 22:25 ID:cTrUu8Pd


While doing it to porn I bear other people in mind.

37 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-04 21:35 ID:Heaven

>>1 its how i made it through the 80's and the early 90's before the internet made it old fashioned.

38 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-04 21:39 ID:KApMjwgx

>>11 shouldnt feel bad about using a picture either. unless its one you took yourself without her knowledge. that would be a red flag. picture that was given to you, or that you took together, or out of a yearbook? green light.

39 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-04 22:38 ID:ebaLoGzY

yeah, it varies. i usually start to prons then move on to people i know, or my fiance, or sometimes i just stick to the animated fantasies