ehmmm... I'm a 18 year old girl and I met this boy (let's call him "J") around 4 months ago, I liked how he looked and his personality, but now he has a girlfriend (he's 23 years old and she's 14 years old) but she's a bitch, she's way too young for him and he hates the music she listen to (he's musician) I think he's with her because she's japanese...
for one thing, what music you like is a stupid thing to fight over- my guy and i have COMPLETELY different tastes in music (me: loud, violent, pounding, him: r&b, whiny british bands), and we've been together like forever.
Now, I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 27; but even I think a 14 year old is way too young for a 23 year old. (And yes I'm aware it's the same year gap, but the maturity gap is much, much bigger between the 14 year old and the 23 year old.)
You call him a boy but he's 5 years older than you and well into adulthood.
Maybe he likes women who know their place.
well, you could get him in jail for being with a minor, but lets set that aside. Let them do their own thing. They might be the type that bond by fighting. But if music is that important then it might fall apart on it's own. Get out some popcorn and watch the show.