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exboyfriend troubles D: (14)

1 Name: Lovechan : 2008-08-24 07:03 ID:texOtUyB

well i guess he's my ex now D: i feel a little unsure to know if i was right...

well he and were together for 10 months then seperated for a year cause he switched schools. we got together again like a year later and it felt sooo good(relationship. not sex)

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-24 07:58 ID:jLIHp+8u

Umm, it sounds a lot like what happaned to me (guy here).

If he gave you drawings he's kind of immature right?

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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-24 10:33 ID:qeHEkYj4

Um... why haven't you talked to him instead of us? This seems like the sort of problem that can easily and best be resolved by actual communication.
If it's too awkward for you to broach the subject, then the relationship probably wasn't healthy to begin with.
As for us - we'll have no clue what's going on, we only have one side of the story and it's always tough when not even you know what's going on.

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4 Name: Lovechan : 2008-08-24 21:15 ID:texOtUyB's only one side xP
i guess this is useless. the relationship in fact wasn't healthy so i guess i should just forget about him.

and the drawings were REALLY good . like it'd say i love you with a chraracter or two hands making a heart or something.

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-24 22:22 ID:jLIHp+8u

Not only the drawing hint at immaturity but also talk in myspace and msn or whatever.

It just all leads to misunderstandings and poor communication.

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6 Name: Lovechan : 2008-08-24 22:42 ID:texOtUyB

dude we're frikkin 15.
of course we're immature
and of course relationships are a waste at this age.
but you can't help what you feel :P

7 Name: bingo : 2008-08-24 22:46 ID:xaDK2Mk/

I've been in a relationship that was really lacking in communication. It would be best if you really talk to him and ask him if he feels if it's best to break up. It sounds like the hardest part of the whole thing is you two are in limbo and he isn't saying one way or another.

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8 Name: bingo : 2008-08-24 22:47 ID:xaDK2Mk/

oh, nvm, I thought you were talking about school, meaning college.

9 Name: Lovechan : 2008-08-24 22:52 ID:texOtUyB

i can sorta relate.

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10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-25 05:39 ID:jLIHp+8u

no relationships at 15 are not a waste

he just doesnt know what he wants. i was in this situation... then he will grow up and really regret that he didnt keep you

11 Name: Lovechan : 2008-08-25 07:01 ID:texOtUyB

i just found out that he's moving about an 1-2 hours from me.
i ...he didn't tell me.
this happened like a 3 months ago and i had to find out from my friend... he never told me anything that might make me sad.
i wish i could give him the drawing i drew of him...even though it's not really good.

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12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-25 12:17 ID:akpaeSrG

I think you need to break it off with him. If he's moving away from you it'd be best for both of you. You're only 15 and you have a long long long time before you really need to worry about anything like relationships.

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13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-29 17:09 ID:ZAtOP30O

stay friends and if you like him just dont lose touch. you never know what the future can bring.

14 Name: Vpeti : 2008-09-01 01:52 ID:YiJ26bsf

He might have problems like being too shy or a perfectionist. What you do is, ask yourself if you love him, even with his issues? If yes, then love him his way. Words don't really matter that much, maybe he is bad with them. You can communicate with touches too: if you hold his hand and he holds on to yours then it says as much as "I love you", in fact its harder to lie this way.

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