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Women advice for a Gentleman with no spine (22)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-30 03:59 ID:blYRF+52

I am 19 years old and never had a girlfriend before. I was raised with old fashioned manners, so I have the whole chivalrous, gallant, gentleman thing going that people tend to love to use and then toss aside when done with them. I have blindly followed some girls for the sole reason that they paid attention to me, but realized that was a bad move on my part and stopped letting myself be used about 2 years ago.

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13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-31 22:33 ID:E5qR/Aia

Girls don't twirl their hair around guys they don't like.

Take her to Chipotle, but NOT the way 9 suggests. It kind of hurts her pride. If she does end up treating you like a "servant", next time make sure you turn her down.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-31 23:35 ID:blYRF+52

OP here:

Well I don't know how nervous I will be or how it is gonna work out, but I am just gonna ask her straight out if she would like to go to Chipotle's with me tommorrow. And try to follow some of what Number 7 said, as it sounds like the best thing to me so far.

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15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-01 01:58 ID:Tux/RD8E

I just love girl who twirl their hair.

My girlfriend's bff does it all the time while around me, does it mean she craves me?

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-01 11:53 ID:Heaven


Maybe she craves your girlfriend.

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-01 20:26 ID:Heaven

>>16 ahahaha

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-02 08:21 ID:XsBcSPz5

Dear op.

"Chipotle burrito bar" is a well known euphemism for a woman's vagina.

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-04 06:30 ID:Heaven


apparently not well known enough...

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-05 12:30 ID:nrZVnbW0

errrrrrrrr, you are "that guy!" congratulations, you have entered the "just friends" zone!

good luck anyway though.

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-08 19:29 ID:blYRF+52

OP Here:

So yea thanks for all the responses, but yea I have been friendzoned by her. Instead of letting this die though. How about you people give me some advice on how to avoid this in future situations? Kk thanks.

22 Name: Azriel : 2008-09-08 19:54 ID:23NQyv+b

 The friend zone is a surprise; you can't see it coming and you can't prevent.  It sucks and it's a real killjoy, especially when every attempt you make ends up in the friend zone!! ><  If you figure out how to get out, post it...I'm getting irritated with working hard for something and getting zilch in return.