I am a guy, right now I have a girl I like in my college.
But, every time I met her, I kept thinking what to say to her.
Any advice what topic to bring?
Hmm.. Why not tell her you have a hard time figuring out what to talk about with her, and ask her advice on what are some good topics to talk about with girls?
Where do you most often come into contact with her? What is it that you like about her? Does she have any interests or quirks that may serve as good starter conversational fodder?
I worked at the same university with her (we are co-workers).
I usually bring the topic of our occupation, but I'm afraid if it will be a boring, because it's everyday talks...
Well, since she's in your college. You should ask her for help on a subject XD doesn't matter if you're good or bad at it. it's just an excuse to spend some time with her XD
talk about a wierd teacher, laughs are good. Girls don't know what to talk about either.
Oh I see, you need... a line.
Saying something like, "Why do girls always play games?" then launching into some bullshit story about a girl who messed around a guy you know, then implying that all girls are like that works well. It compels her to talk to you because she wants to defend herself/her gender.
Ask her about herself, things she likes for example, most people like to talk about themselves, when she tells you something about herself say something about yourself in return.
Music, books, food and movies are always pretty good standard topics.
I'm trying to learn the same subject she learn.
But, every time I offer help, she would decline :sad:
Orz orz!! -- possible weeaboo detected in thread!!
Its you. Since when does ''orz'', have capital O?
okay, okay. put that aside...
anyway, I'll keep distance from her for a while.
did you try talking about the latest celebrity gossip?
Ugh. That smacks of self-pity, which girls hate.