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How should I take it? (11)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-18 22:03 ID:ZKBz5OF/

How should I take it when I let a girl know I've got a crush on her, and she seems to neither reciprocate nor reject my love?

Is she just too shy to reciprocate? Is she just too afraid to reject?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-18 22:15 ID:/+/hLrvf

Could be either, but does she find you sexy? (You can tell by the way she looks at you)

3 Name: anaga : 2008-09-19 03:37 ID:oGhs8Bm1

maybe youre just a faggot and are too blind to realize it yourself.
she probably isnt too fond of the fact that youre probably a weaboo

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-19 04:52 ID:Heaven

>>3
That wasn't very nice...

5 Name: bingo : 2008-09-19 15:01 ID:ZFReznpl

usually you can tell from body language. Did she seem surprised? Disgusted? Or maybe she doesn't even know you and doesn't have an opinion of you. You could ask her to give a simple yes or no. If she liked you she would have already affirmed it, though.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-22 05:55 ID:/+/hLrvf

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-22 16:18 ID:mYqlzQff

OP here.

By the way I act around her I make it pretty obvious that I like her, and she didn't seem to find it surprising either. Nor did she seem disgusted.

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8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-22 21:32 ID:kkiZK02o

Go to her, say this "I'm sincerely sorry, but this is starting to disturb me, so I'm going to ask this straight. I have a crush on you, would you like to go out someday?"

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-23 23:35 ID:/+/hLrvf

>>8
Sure, it's good advice to encourage him to work up courage and ask her out, but what makes or breaks it is body language not the wording, though your line is rather loserish.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-24 00:26 ID:V2/uiyv9

Yes, just ask her out and then you will get a direct answer.

Unfortunately I suspect she's just too nice to directly tell you that she does not return your feelings, but don't be discouraged! Go for it -- it's the only way you'll find out.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-24 07:22 ID:TpXcQbTp

It normally means she's not interested, but doesn't want to hurt you.

><; Sorry to say it, but you should prepare yourself for the worst.