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1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-22 03:16 ID:5Csc3DD5

I am a bisexual woman. Every time I meet a man or woman that I am highly attracted to, I start believing that I am unworthy of their love, so I never try to get into a relationship with them. Instead, I find out if they have a crush on anyone, and try my hardest to hook them up with that person. I suppose I feel that if I really care for a person, I wouldn't put them through dating me, and find someone better for them (more attractive, wealthy, closer to their location, etc.). Does anyone else feel this way?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-22 04:58 ID:7cXTX0hL

Yes, sometimes I too do feel that way, but only when my object of desire has shown obvious disinterest in me.

However, when a girl does this to me it can be really saddening. First off, I don't need anyone's help "hooking up". If I can't achieve success by myself then I don't deserve it.

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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-22 21:52 ID:gLzLYbYw

Worth isn't universal. If you think you are unworthy, don't be depressed, he might consider you to be valued as pure gold.

Same goes for me really, I prefer different types of people for different characteristics, what concerns females, I'd consider the average girl, who to the average guy is attractive as hell, to be valued as copper at the very best, but I might place platinum on someone, who doesn't even go as a possibility for the average Joe.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-24 07:20 ID:emPE3DHL

I have a friend just like you. DD:

Seriously, it gets annoying for your friends after a while. I'm sure you just have low confidence, but it's still no reason for you to not just try it. You're worth just as much as everyone else and you may be worth even more to the girl.

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