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Long distance relationships suck. (20)

1 Name: Desu : 2008-10-05 03:58 ID:L2pB1Syi

So my boyfriend and I have been going out for two years, he's a sophomore in college, and I'm a senior in high school. He goes to college 4 hours away and I see him maybe once a month. Last year was better because we actually talked on the phone and he didn't have as much homework. This year, we barely talk and he has so much homework he hasn't made an effort to see my yet. You might tell me to go visit him, but this won't work because a) I'm not allowed to drive that far, b) even if I could, I wouldn't be allowed to stay with him, c) I'm not going there with my dad (he's a thread all his own), and d) my mom works and she doesn't like traveling too often.

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11 Name: seen it happen : 2008-10-08 14:45 ID:pcy7WNiT

amor de lejos, amor de pendejos


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12 Name: Desu : 2008-10-08 22:33 ID:L2pB1Syi

@ 10: Holy shit, 10 years?! God, 6 is going to kill me, if you still count ~45 minutes as "long distance."

And the "something to look forward to" idea makes sense. A lot of the time, I don't know when the next time I'll see him is.

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13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-08 22:55 ID:VnDBaUxw

>> 12

Well, for me it was 6h. 45 min does not strike me as a terrible long distance, many people commute daily far more than that,...

14 Name: Desu : 2008-10-09 02:26 ID:L2pB1Syi

Right now it's 3-4 hours. But even with 45 minutes you have to remember that we'll both be in college then and have homework and stuff.

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-09 07:27 ID:8Afd6jdr

Wow >>10-san, that's amazing. How was the whole experience for you? Is your relationship with your partner even stronger now that you both had endured that much time for each other?

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-09 09:00 ID:rPTkBWHj


>How was the whole experience for you?
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17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-09 09:02 ID:rPTkBWHj

>Is your relationship with your partner even stronger now that you both had endured that much time for each other?

Certainly. After all we went through and the commitment displayed by both of us, we both have a lot of confidence in our relationship, even though you must never become complacent.

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18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-17 01:51 ID:bEaMCNgO


19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-17 01:53 ID:bEaMCNgO

let me rephrase that. He lives four (4) hours away and hasn't made an effort to see you yet, and you talk rarely. The likelehood of you falling apart is apparent, though I do hope the best for you two.

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-27 01:31 ID:lzxRhMJK

oh i have something to say on this topic but it's far too late and complicated and argh fuck it. distance sucks. 4 hours, christ, at least you're on the same continent. you can get a train! i'm five thousand miles away from the person i want to spend my life with.