>>All I want is a nice guy who is chubby, smart, funny, can fix a computer and has a higher sex drive then me.
possibly matches to every guy on this site.
but well to answer your question, it's hard to tell. i'm a guy and thought the same about me. and like many other guys, i always thought that girls always like macho/bad guys.
right now i found the perfect girl for me.
the solution is, that you really have to look for the right person. for example same interests, don't go straight for the look. this will also NEVER work.
and if you are still young see it as a chance to learn.
it's all i can tell about this.
sometime you will also find the right one.