I always tried to be a good girlfriend because it makes me happy to see I made someone I love happy but it just seems to blow up in my face every time. I love to cook and clean for guys that I date and I have a naturally high sex drive (usually I like more extreme sex then most of the guys I date but I try not to complain that I want more). And I always date the 'nice guy' (I don't know why but nice guys always seem to be my type I like). But the last guy I was dating said 'You're ok but I don't think this will work out'. I keep getting "You're ok but this won't work out." and I'm tired of it. The only people that seem to want to date me is older men or wanna-be rappers, who want me to be in their music video.
lol just imagine on ur bf's face if he finds out..hes defo ending it with u, lol
i hear this solution all the time, my friend, she manage to keep it together for like half a year.
i actaully felt sorry for the poor guy, well it turns out that bloke knew evenatully so he decided to get revenge and secretly find someone else and was seeing someone behind her back, then my mate found out about him cheating on her (not that it was his fault to begin with) so she decided to break up and she was in tears, she did it on the phone while she was happen to be with our group of friends, (the fuck buddy, is not in our group, dont know him.)
Everyone is different. Relationship advice is generally lopsided because everyone has their own skew on the situation and everyone has different opinions and tastes?
You like to have sex alot? Great. Find a guy who REALLY like sex. Not a guy who just wants to fuck your hole 'til his wad falls out, but a guy who actually wants to make something out of it. It is certainly possible to oversex guys. I've had friends dump girls who were too crazy, even though they got fucked constantly. (I haven't quite had that problem yet :P )
TITS or GTFO
actually, women are said to be in their sexual prime in their 30's, whilst males are in their late teens.
and OP, i agree with >>15. u sound like a great girl, popular, active, social, good looking. naturally, the nice guys are gonna initially be hell chuffed when they get to hook up with you. but then as time progresses, they feel they can't keep up with you. you mentioned you cooked/cleaned...they could be feeling smothered by you, as well as them having an inferiority complex. it's like, she's hot, she cleans, she's social and all around too perfect perhaps?
What I really want...
I don;t have anyone in particular to relate to, and I don't associate with my (idiotic) family any longer. I need a lover and a friend (and even more importantly someone to stimulate my mind, a partner of a similar intellectual level). There's no reason why the two shouldn't go together. I need someone to spend all my time with. However I don't want a surrogate mother.
You gotta play hard to get. You need to be a little mysterious. And never, ever put out until the guy is obsessed with you.
As a man that's exactly what I don't want. I'd get frustrated and angry and think she isn't interested in me, feel depressed for a week or two then move on.
Women need to be honest about their feelings. If you like a guy, tell him, just as I would be open towards a girl I liked. That helps matters immeasurably! I hate all this dillying around.