I don’t get it no matter what I do, no mater how hard I try I can’t get a girlfriend. I’m a 20 year old guy, and yes I am an otaku, but it’s not like you could tell just by looking at me. I’m not exactly good looking but I’m not a hideous fucker either. I have always been polite, honest (though not to the point of rudeness), and respectful. It’s like I have Hideki syndrome. I’m always being told how I’m such a sweet guy, but that never gets me any where. It’s not like I’m even given a chance, I’m just written of as “just a nice guy” and they move on. It gets worse every time because I’m terrified that I will always be alone. I don’t really have a lot of people I’m close with there or only one or two people I think of as real friends. I’ve even tried excepting the fact that I will probably always be alone but it just doesn’t work. I hate feeling like this, it feels weak and I hate that, but I just cant seem to stop thinking negatively like this.
>...and putting her hands on my arm. I know this doesn’t mean much but who knows.
Fuck… Hands on shoulder means nothing she has a boyfriend.
That’s what I get for being optimistic. You’d think I would have learned by now…
I just found out that one of my friends just started a new relationship. This week is fast turning into bullshit.
I feel for you dude. I guess people like us will end up getting the ugly girls instead. It's hard to believe even some immature brats out there managed to score nice-looking-gorgeous-cute chicks while us, well-mannered and mature ones get the leftover.
No… No I will not accept this. There must be cute, clever, kind girls out there who can accept and appreciate us for who we are. I will not accept that there are no women who will have our kind. In a world so full of wonder there must surely be such women for people like us. I will not accept so black a fate as eternal loneliness. I shall do everything in my power to overcome the weaknesses that hold me back and I shall find my hearts companion if it is the last thing I do.
There's only a limited amount of moe in the world. Don't hog it all..
If you're not willing to accept a girl whose less than cute, why should there be any cute girls who are willing to accept you?
Actually my standards of cute would be rather low to most people (if you are only going on looks that is). For me “cute” involves personality and originality as much as looks, in some cases more so. Average looks plus original personality makes cute for me. I actually dislike those girls who most people think are cute but have ether no personality traits or are self centered. I’m sorry for the misunderstanding and I hope I did not offend you.
Well, in my case, cute doesn't mean she has to be the prettiest girl I wanted to be with. Average looks would be just enough. I'm not sure about personality since I've never been in a close relationship with a girl. Sure I can wish that a girl has to be kind-hearted, nice, loving, caring, etc. But in real life, girls may lack some of those criteria. Gotta trust yer instinct to choose the right person :)