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finding the right time and place to admit your feelings (9)


1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-18 02:13 ID:SYa3bhF/

for the guys out there, what are your thoughts on figuring out the right time and place to tell a girl you like her?

I guess I'll give a bit of my own situation. Basically, I've known this girl for a few months and I'm tired of this blind dance of reading body language and idle chatter. I've also got this bad feeling several other guys are courting her too. So I've decided to take a chance, the big issue is figuring out how to do so and increasing my own chances with her. presentation is everything.

2 Name: XCDXER0 : 2008-11-18 03:23 ID:gprKdTa6

i'd say if you are totally for sure and ready and prepared for a yes and prepared for a no. then go for it. the right time is when you believe it is the right time. u will know when it isn't the right time to ask the girl out. none of us here would know because u have spent months with this girl.

3 Name: Yoshiya : 2008-11-18 14:18 ID:7/ThgbDU

I hate to say the same thing as XCDXER0, but honestly you really will know. At some point it will just seem to be the natural thing to do, and as long as you're prepared for the answer (whatever it may be), you'll be fine.

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4 Name: XCDXER0 : 2008-11-19 01:47 ID:RnqPOoyM

>>3 haha hey why hating to say the same thing as me. or u meant to say the exact same thing twice. haha we all chill!

5 Name: Yoshiya : 2008-11-20 00:28 ID:7/ThgbDU

>>4 I meant more that I didn't like saying the same thing twice haha. Glad to know we're still cool.

6 Name: Otakun : 2008-11-20 10:06 ID:t0xjl2EW

I'll just say don't wait too long... The pain from not doing anything and regretting it is much worse than failing. Do your best, be true to your heart. Its called "taking the plunge" for a reason!

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-20 13:09 ID:QYlY8rTx

>>1
Next time you're alone with her, just say it.
"I like you" or whatever.
Follow up with a savage buttrape

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-25 05:56 ID:tk8zf83A

Just a random thought.

But.

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9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-26 21:37 ID:6yDHIxTv

>>8 said good stuff.

It's ok if there are other guys around (alright, it's not really ok), as long as you keep your score.
But I'd avise you to spend time with her and take a shot at it without saying any dangerous words.