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i fail at love (10)

1 Name: cain : 2008-11-28 21:47 ID:8h052Iyj

okay so i liked this girl but she lied to me and i still like her. but my friend says i should date guys. cause i fail with women. i mean guys wouldnt be that bad but i still like that girl. im so confused. help.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-29 11:04 ID:8h052Iyj


3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-29 17:35 ID:h9vYXUtt

You are indeed confused. If you like girls, date girls. If you have bad experiences, go out with girls who fit better with you

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-29 18:46 ID:R49odoWz

Don't take your friend seriously, he's probably just being a dick. And what did the girl lie to you about?

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-30 00:02 ID:eAbw38DZ

she gave off the impression that she liked me. heres what happend she was to come meet my family and she said that she would LOVE to go. to keep it simple she changed her flight the night before she was suposed to leave which is totally fucking impossble. and she went to my best friend and told him she actually didnt feel like going.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-30 10:16 ID:vEgU04JO

well actually it is possible to change a flight the night before, it just costs an x amount of money to do so.
so what if she didn't feel like going in the end. if you seriously took your friend serious, than you are way to gullible already, hes obviously fucking around and being a dick. guys do that to friends. and when she said she LOVE to go. it isn't exactly literal all the time. most of the time people say it as an additional word of showing gratitude. its just a word with no real meaning in that context.

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-30 12:25 ID:eAbw38DZ

hmm interesting..well ive been trying to call her to tell her that i dont like her anymore cause i think the whole reason she didnt want to go is cause she knew i liked her its been a week so. but in the end she rejected me... but i respect her for what she did..... but as for past love relationships..... well they failed horrably. i have really bad luck with women.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-12-01 21:48 ID:eAbw38DZ

so talked to the girl about the "problem" and she said that she didnt want to go cause it would be akward for her

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-12-02 05:35 ID:R49odoWz

awkward how?

10 Name: Oni : 2008-12-04 08:37 ID:jaegUFT/

i know this is so cliche to say but "there are a lot of fish out in the sea". so take your time, another one will come. as for the whole guy and girl thing, thats your choice dont let someone tell you that bc you dont do well with one gender that should turn to the other. go for what makes YOU happy. not everyone out there is as honest as youd like them to be. if they dont have courage to be honest it isnt worth being with them. i wish you the best of luck in relationships and everything else. btw attraction to ppl can make you blind to see what is real. dont forget that.