Not sure if this goes into Sexuality or here, but I honestly think I'd get better responses here.
Okay, so yeah.
I would like to contend what is moral and what isn't. Could you provide me with one reason why sexual activity is 'immoral'? Such 'morals' are in my opinion immoral'. Sex is a human thing, and as you seem to have realised partly, it is both sensually satisfying an emotionally if you are involved romantically with that person.
Morals are surely what is good. What is 'good'? In my opinion, aesthetic, sensual, emotional, and intellectual satisfaction.
Relationships are all about give and take and sometimes doing things that you might not really want to do.
To be sure, if your boyfriend or girlfriend wants you to rob a bank or hurt someone, that's a hard line that shouldn't be crossed. But lighter things like going to a ballet show (my last g/f was REALLY into it...) and trying to enjoy yourself there make a big difference in how a relationship grows.
Personally, I think you should go for it. You'll
1) make her happy
2) form a closer bond with her and
3) lose your superiority complex, which will make you an overall better guy.
Wow, I think this is the first time I've ever seen the word "asexual" used to describe a human instead of a prokaryote.
get over yourself
Don't jerk it for a week, then see how you feel. :P
Must have wet dreams every night. That or the next time you ejaculate your sperm will be as yellow as a buttercup.
sperm production is relative to need and desire. I once temporarily lost my sexdrive for almost a year. I had two nightly emissions within the first month, then nothing for the remainder of the period. Once I got back in business however, the first load I blew off was the most massive I've ever seen. lol
Yes I do, actually. I tend to actually have multiple per night.
There are several ways of answering this:
Nothing wrong with having sex with your girlfriend if she's all for it!!
Ok, fuck it.
Means he's full of shit. Nothing to see here, move along.
It means that I can only be physically attracted or want to have sex with someone I truly love.
That does not make any sense. You say you have never truly loved, so how can you know that you will be sexually attracted to the person you will truly love if that has not yet happened? For all you know, that person might not elicit any sexual attraction,...
I think you're just 16 and very confused.
Get over yourself.
hei gais look at me i have some really rare sexuality
i am speciaaaaaal
What this guy said, except in a more polite tone.
I'm gonna have to concur with everyone else here and say that OP has a ridiculous superiority complex for someone who's just 16.
Get over yourself.
Cosigned. You're 16 years old and as precocious as someone half your age. How can you be an asexual male with a girlfriend?
I'm more surprised that the OP has someone who can put up with him for long enough to go out with him.
Does she find herself superior to everyone else as well? I mean, seriously. I don't know you, but you said that you like being a virgin because it gives you a reason to feel superior to other people.
There is no small amount of irony in the fact that most everyone on this board are complaining of not having a girlfriend, and it had to be the pretentious asexual asshole who not only has a girlfriend, but doesn't want to sleep with her.
if asexual, might as we'll have a boyfriend, then... or a horse
People aren't irate at you because of sex, sex, sex. It's because you're a teenaged dick with a superiourity complex.
You have a low sex drive. You are also an entitled, identity-obsessed asshole.
Learn to separate the two. Then fuck this girl. It's not a big deal and you won't regret it later.
I think it's good to value your virginity.
I don't think any of us here are saying that it's not good to value your virginity.
Most of us are saying that it's not good to value your virginity solely on the fact that you believe yourself to be above others.
I don't see why such a value is placed upon virginity myself.
Unless it has eluded medical professionals to this day, there is no physical significance in regards to one's virginity. Even the woman's hymen isn't a surefire means by which to prove or disprove past elopement.