Not sure if this goes into Sexuality or here, but I honestly think I'd get better responses here.
Okay, so yeah.
I'm more surprised that the OP has someone who can put up with him for long enough to go out with him.
Does she find herself superior to everyone else as well? I mean, seriously. I don't know you, but you said that you like being a virgin because it gives you a reason to feel superior to other people.
There is no small amount of irony in the fact that most everyone on this board are complaining of not having a girlfriend, and it had to be the pretentious asexual asshole who not only has a girlfriend, but doesn't want to sleep with her.
if asexual, might as we'll have a boyfriend, then... or a horse
People aren't irate at you because of sex, sex, sex. It's because you're a teenaged dick with a superiourity complex.
You have a low sex drive. You are also an entitled, identity-obsessed asshole.
Learn to separate the two. Then fuck this girl. It's not a big deal and you won't regret it later.
I think it's good to value your virginity.
I don't think any of us here are saying that it's not good to value your virginity.
Most of us are saying that it's not good to value your virginity solely on the fact that you believe yourself to be above others.
I don't see why such a value is placed upon virginity myself.
Unless it has eluded medical professionals to this day, there is no physical significance in regards to one's virginity. Even the woman's hymen isn't a surefire means by which to prove or disprove past elopement.