My biggest problem by far 4-ch is where to MEET girls.
I'm in a college where 70% of it is male, so meeting one in school who isn't taken is almost impossible. I'd like to be able to go out on the town and find someone but I don't drink so a bar or something like that is out.
Also if it helps I'd like someone in the 20-22 age range. Or at least close to it.
Tell me when you find out, I'm in the exact same situation.
My friend ran into a similar problem. He joined a fraternity his freshman year. He doesn't have a problem meeting girls, just staying with them.
well, go to places where you'll find plenty of girls: church, creative ateliers, dance courses, theater clubs, whatever. 50%+ people are female, they can't be hiding very far from you.
Well post 5, my best friend tells me church is the best place but I'm not nearly as religious as I used to be and don't do well in that enviroment at all, and those other places don't fit my interests at all.
>>6 well, it looks like you are not ready to make some efforts, so don't be surprised if things don't change for you in the near future.
Your best hope now is to have friends/family who will give you access to girls.
I can see why you don't want to meet them in church (that IS kinda depressing O__o") But if you join a club like >>5 said, x) or maybe find someone through a friend or something xD
Bars and clubs are the best, but they're out, apparently. You need to find places where people go to relax and hang out, a coffee shop, maybe? Friends, family and church are horrid choices, too many people already know you and it makes it harder to find someone who isn't going to be influenced by your past. Far better to find someone outside those close-knit circles, someone you can be your real self around. Plus if it doesn't work out you won't be marked as someone's ex so easily, and it's less likely they'll have heard her angsty shit about you before or after you split up.
Well the thing is I just moved to a new town. Nobody knows shit about my past here.
well i go to a university too, i thought about it and well its about 50-50, but the girls seems to disappear, a lot of them are dating but a lot of them are hanging with their girl friends...the mall, the local restaurant or food chains, class, dorms, etc. etc. hell u can find some pretty awesome girls at the library XD
I'm stuck because I'm 27, in a city of <100,000, not religious, and not a drinker - or looking for one.
Shite, man. Bars are good, I guess. Umm, maybe through friends? If you dont have any friends, make some, then they'll probably know girls.