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i cant seem to find a girlfriend (4)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-12-22 02:50 ID:P1LCIpj+

well...where to begin? im 17, black, a nice average build, about an 8 in the looks department, a great guy, im funny, but i cant seem to get a girl friend.i suck at flirting, and tense up whenever im around a girl i like. i also seem to punk out alot, and end up missing out on the girl. i dont know what my problem is, whether im too nice or something else. im writing, hoping that someone here can help.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-12-22 07:04 ID:hNyTU4Ot

Well,... you already had a gf, so it's not like you are clueless. You don't necessarily need to be that good at flirting. Already being interested in someone is a good start, if you have that then it's just a matter of spending time with that person.

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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-12-22 09:29 ID:kZ6BzjzL

was the girl you were dating white?

if you were able to get a girl once you can get one again. you are hung up on your ex. let her go, be yourself and you will be fine.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-12-22 16:26 ID:P1LCIpj+

OP here
im not really a bitter person, though i do have a bit of a petty side. i realize i need to get someone new to get over the last one, but for some reason, im terrified to commit myself to talkin to other girls. its really fustrating \(xox)/