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So there's this girl.... [PURSUIT] (7)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-12-25 00:12 ID:Rv+YiXdC

There's this girl I like that I met through school (we're both over 18) and she seems pretty into me, I feel pretty at ease with her although still pretty shy and self-concious.

Anyway, we've seen each other at clubs and stuff and danced together, even met up casually once. The problem I'm having is what the hell do I do now? I invited her out with us for New Years Eve (OH GOD I HOPE I KISS HER) but I'm really shy when it comes to relationships and have zero prior experience.

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2 Name: 43 : 2008-12-25 09:34 ID:X5hQCdyk

  1. Wait for her to give you the sign (the coy smile + eyebrow rising for 2 second followed by looking away)
  2. Once and only once you have received the signal then make your move. Most guys spoil everything at this stage. By your move I mean approach her and get to know her.
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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-12-25 11:32 ID:A75erur2


she said she's shy, so I don't think she would make the first move. Or even touch him. I have had my fair share of experience with shy girls.

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4 Name: Daydreamer : 2008-12-25 13:00 ID:O75IbspA

I love sappy/corny things too. ^_^
But I think the kissing resolution, followed by actually doing it, would be a bit rash at this stage. That would be too fast. If she's shy about it, I think it's best to stick to a pace with which she feels comfortable and safe.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-12-25 13:59 ID:Rv+YiXdC

I haven't had any of that but friends say she looks at me a lot when I'm not looking at her, no idea what that means but it can't be bad right? She's initiated physical contact and we hug frequently but I'm too scared to give her a real hug (and I'm really tall so it's super hard).

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6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-12-26 06:41 ID:n1B6klDY


I don't think the leaving her with your friends would be a good idea. Unless she is already comfortable with your friends, you should stay with her the entire night.

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-12-28 04:55 ID:FK5vF4lR

I tried spontanely kissing a girl once. She answered by pulling me into her again for another long kiss.
No alcohol or anything involved, it just seemed like a good move with low risk considering the girl involved, and it took A LOT of courage.

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