And I'm a bit disturb about it. It is a group that rates looks. She said she likes the attention it gives her. And I feel insulted that I am not giving her enough. According to her she said I will always think she is beautiful because I know her personality, but she wants people to give her a superficial rating of her. I tried to explain to her it is just the same as going to a bar all dressed up, getting hit on and then coming home like nothing happened.
You shouldn't feel insulted about it. Appearently she likes the attention, some people just do. personally I would rather be judged on my personality then on my looks though, being judged on your looks is just so...shallow.
I fail to see the problem here, OP.
She also likes the close attention other men give her, op. If you know what I mean.
Sorry if my question wasn't clearer. But basically my gf posted her picture so it can get rated based on her looks. She claims that she wants to know what people think of her aka how hot she really is. I have no problem with her doing it, but there is a bigger problem with this. She wants the attention and that can lead to trouble further down the road. It is basically a self esteem issue. But as of now, it is a group she is posting on. I guess I am worrying later on down the road. That she won't be satisfied with attention and will continue to seek more until she either leaves me for another man or cheats on me. My last girlfriend was like that, an attention whore. Luckily I saw it and ended it before I truly got hurt. I guess I am worried about the same thing.
She's an attention whore. She will cheat on you given the time.
I, for one, would have been greatly insulted by such a thing.
> But I talked to her about it and she understood and actually took it off.
Discussion leading to a mutual understanding and strengthened relationship? Ah man... how boring!
"I don't care what anyone else says, I think you look beautiful."
You should use this line a lot more. It depreciates her opinion of what others think of her by focusing the compliment to just you.